Christmas has come and gone! It was alright at our house. There is currently some drama going on in my family that I am not at liberty to discuss, but it’s troubling me. I need to get away from this house and hang out with some other folks. I sort of care and I sort of don’t care and it’s bothersome. It’s insulting me, which is possibly the biggest thing that’s pissing me off because it’s about racism and there isn’t anything I can do about it. I hate racists.
ANYWAY! I have to get back to working on my grad application. I have to do some more things. Mom put money on her Visa today, so tomorrow I will FINALLY be able to fill out the online portion of the grad application. The bulk of what I have worked on will get mailed late next week. The deadline is coming up, January 16th! Yikes! I’m pretty excited though, and I feel like I am on track.
I was sober for my first Christmas! I made it through the whole holiday without getting smashed or even having a sip. Pretty awesome! And you know, even though drinking was so ingrained in my Christmases previous, I didn’t actually miss it this year. I didn’t even really think about it!
My next sober milestone is coming up quick, the first Sober New Years Eve! I have to come up with a new way of celebrating the start of a new year. I am gonna have a candy bathmelt bath with candles and incense, and get in pyjamas, and read my tarot cards, and drink something yummy without booze, and eat chips and dip or something. It should be pretty nice. I hope I have a good time. I don’t know who else will be there. I might get sparkling apple cider for midnight too, that always feels fun!
Anyway, life really changed quite majorly for me this past year! I quit drugging and drinking, I got a driver’s license, I decided to go back to school, I made some money, I was poor, I applied for some jobs, and at the end of the year I got selected for an assessment which I passed for a job that pays a minimum of 26 dollars an hour! I also went to Germany for five weeks, saw a red light district, lived within my means during the time I was there, got a grant, made a video, and submitted that video to a famous film festival in Germany that I have attended over a decade ago. It’s all looking up for me really. Sure, I am still living with my Mom and people judge that, but I’m doing really really well for the first time in a long time. I feel like I am prepared for some of these good things which could happen next year. If I get into grad school, I should be making enough money with my RA/TA/GA and my band funding to be able to afford life in Toronto for two years or whatever. So I am feeling pretty positive. And the residences let you have pets, so Mister and Beatrix will be able to come with me.
I’m also really happy that I am on the lowest amount of meds I have been on in a long time. I’m happy to be stable without needing to be drugged to the gills. And having a sex drive again is really nice, I missed it. I feel like I will be stable during the next few crucial years of doing school. Should I get in.
And if I don’t get into school, hopefully I will have a job I am good at that pays well to keep me afloat for the next couple years until I can get into school. It’s all good!
I’m really tired. Dramatic few days. I need to get back to worrying about my life and my future. And I need to work on this damned paper! Aaaaaaaahhhhhh! I’ve got to just sit down and DO IT!
I wonder when X Corporation will get back to me about doing an interview, or do an interview on the phone or something. Mum says next year. That’s six days away! Seven actually, I doubt they will call on the first!
Anyway, I’m ready to snooze! I called the Prime Minister’s office about meeting with Chief Theresa Spence, a real person answers! Then she sends you to the voicemail! It was awesome! I felt engaged with democrazy. OMG! That was totally a typo, but it really is what Canada has right now!